Many people tend to bring the same mindset that hasn’t worked at home to the counseling office. They come armed with their list of complaints and set to work trying to convince me that their spouse is the source of the problem. I get it… I REALLY DO! There has been a lot of history that led up to this point and everybody is truly hurting. Counseling isn’t mediation and I don’t take sides. It is soul care that lead to restoration. Our first session starts with an illustration.